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Your AI Therapist Will See You Now

Your AI Therapist Will See You Now

The whiplash around AI these days is real: One minute, we’re hearing from the most powerful AI leaders of our time that the technology could arguably kill us all. A minute later, we’re seeing an ad for the latest AI therapy-bot or app appear in our algorithm, offering a cheaper, more convenient alternative to human therapists. All this is happening within the larger geopolitical and environmental context of the debate surrounding AI data centers and the enormous ecological cost of running these systems. This begs the question: Can you, or should you, consider an AI therapist? Human Versus AI Throwdown: Therapy Edition If we momentarily put aside carbon footprint concerns, recent research directly comparing the effectiveness of AI versus human mental health professionals is telling. When researchers showed therapists transcripts of conversations between patients and 1) an AI therapy bot and 2) a human therapist, the professionals couldn’t reliably tell the difference between the two. Their performance hovered around chance (53 percent accuracy). What’s more, the transcripts with the AI therapists scored higher on quality. …

Prominent art therapist quoted by Vice, Forbes and others is AI-generated

Prominent art therapist quoted by Vice, Forbes and others is AI-generated

A supposed art therapist who was widely quoted on psychological topics by news outlets around the world has been removed from journalist response service Qwoted after her details were found to be false. Press Gazette analysis suggests her profile photograph and much of her output are AI-generated. We have also been unable to verify that she exists. ‘Dr Eleni Nicolaou’ has appeared more than 30 times in the media in recent months, in publications including: — Tom’s Guide (on the benefits of sunlight) — Psychology (on how she helped someone “finally feel their grief”) — And Forbes (on therapist-approved ways to improve your home work station). Her expert insights have also appeared in articles published by Glamour, Vice, Netmums, AOL and Yahoo in recent months.  Dr Nicolaou, who purports to be an expert in residence for paint-by-numbers kit selling website Davincified, claims to be an art therapist from Cyprus – but there is no sign of her practice online.  Instead, in her various online profiles on Facebook and Linkedin, everything links back to her profile …

The Empty Promise of Therapy Without a Therapist

The Empty Promise of Therapy Without a Therapist

Therapy can involve a lot of words, but it’s often the pauses that matter most. If you transcribed a session, the pauses would look like nothing: beats of silence, extra breaths, slowing down. But these can represent the crux of the practice: entry points into feeling. My job as a psychoanalyst is to listen as much to silence as to words, to be present with the patient while they’re quiet—to stay with them as they allow their feelings to emerge. I was trained across diverse theories and techniques, but in my clinical work I have found that the cornerstone of the process is feeling. The patient’s emotional experience is the destination and the terrain. But I also feel; I am moved. And the work I do with my patients relies on our relationship and our capacity for mutual feeling. In many ways, the history of my field from Freud on has been a growing acknowledgement of the reality of this relationship—moving from the therapist as sealed off and standing apart, toward approaches that view the …

If Your Therapist Gets Sick, Do You Want to Know?

If Your Therapist Gets Sick, Do You Want to Know?

Co-authored by Martha Sweezy and Roberta Omin Imagine you are a therapy client arriving for a session. You watch your therapist walk across the room with a limp. He seems to be in pain; he looks tired and preoccupied. Part of you feels concerned and wants to ask if he’s okay. Another part admonishes internally, “It’s none of your business! That’s how it goes in therapy.” Now imagine being the therapist. Your limp is a big tell. You’re not sleeping well, you feel exhausted, and it’s no wonder: You just got a troubling diagnosis. You are scared, and when you woke up this morning, you felt overwhelmed. You are aware of being deeply vulnerable. No part of you wants to share this information with clients. As you sit down, you hear some inner reassurance, “Don’t worry. We don’t have to talk about it.” A Therapeutic Dilemma Internal Family Systems therapy (IFS) maintains that the mind — the arena of subjective experience — is peopled with parts, or subjectively experienced individuals of all ages who live …

Why Your Therapist Thanks You

Why Your Therapist Thanks You

Source: NoSystem Images / Getty Images Signature It’s a not-so-well-kept secret. Therapists are nosy. Maybe not all therapists, but c’mon. Who would want to go into a profession where you listen all day to other people’s problems, secrets, quandaries, and so forth? Nosy people. Sure, we want to help you, absolutely. But lots of people want to help others and don’t become therapists. Those people (after a socially acceptable number of minutes of other people going on about personal problems) say, “Dude, you should really go talk to somebody about that.” Therapists can’t say that. They are the somebody. Over the therapist years, I learned so much more than my nosiness and desire to help others ever suggested I might. And I owe that to all my clients. Thank you, each and every one. Thank you for making me keep learning, all the time. Whenever you had a problem, it wasn’t that it became my problem, but if I didn’t know about it, I wanted to learn. From reading studies that taught me—for instance—that couples …

I Need Help! Should I Use an AI Chatbot or a Therapist?

I Need Help! Should I Use an AI Chatbot or a Therapist?

It’s hard to believe that just a few years ago, Large Language Models (LLMs) like ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini weren’t widely used—or used at all! Now organizations and corporations in every industry are trying to leverage this technology to advance their goals in an environment with few guardrails and very limited understanding of how it will impact users long term. In the mental health field, chatbots like Woebot, Replika, and Wysa have been programmed to incorporate techniques from psychotherapy modalities including Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy upon request. If you’re considering therapy, or if a friend or family member elicits your advice about seeking treatment, should you or they enlist help from a chatbot or from a therapist? There are advantages and disadvantages to both choices. The disadvantages are so important that it’s advisable to consider them first. Disadvantages of Chatbots If you have suicidal or homicidal thinking or show symptoms of serious mental illness, such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder, you should not use chatbots as they are …

The Therapist as Mirror

The Therapist as Mirror

We all have a mirror—a bathroom mirror, a full-length mirror in the bedroom—a place we go to see how we look. We might feel good; we might be wearing clothes we feel comfortable in; we might have just gotten a haircut we like. Even though we intuitively know what we look like, we still look in the mirror to check ourselves out. Quite often, we don’t like what we see in the mirror. It doesn’t match up with how we see ourselves internally. We look at ourselves from unflattering angles. Do we have a weird cowlick or a booger in our nose? We turn and see how our gut looks in profile. How many chins can we count? Where did that zit come from? Looking in the mirror creates a clash between our internal reality and external reality. What would it be like if mirrors were never invented? How would we know how to think about how we look? I think we’d just have to go with how we feel inside. And that might be …

Have You Told Your Therapist You Are Mad at Them?

Have You Told Your Therapist You Are Mad at Them?

Any quick scroll online, or a walk through an airport, might suggest that we are already angry enough, maybe we don’t need to talk more about our rage. A recent Gallup survey tracked years of increasing anger and stress, placing us in what it called a decade of “global unhappiness.” We often see rants in a comments section on some social media platform, or witness intense road rage while driving, and even experience living with intensified political violence. And it seems as if the only thing Republicans and Democrats can agree on these days is that they are all mad. Unfortunately, our current attempts to share feelings of anger are indirect and ineffective. There is a better way. Though we experience anger powerfully, we do not process it well – we are not great at talking it through. Anger management has long been the go-to when discussing how to “treat” this potentially consuming emotion. Embedded in this treatment approach is the idea that we should minimize our anger. While anger management treatments vary widely, what …

What Is It Like to Be an AI Therapist?

What Is It Like to Be an AI Therapist?

When I speak with colleagues and students about AI therapy, the concern that I most often hear is that AIs are “mindless”—that they are “robots” that “parrot” whatever melange of cognitive behavioral therapy and other modalities that they may have picked up from textbooks and Wikipedia. What a client wants from her therapist is a real person, with a real mind, who will respond to her genuinely; their concern is that an AI therapist—by which I mean, roughly, a large language model used or adapted for a therapy-style conversation—can simply never do what a human therapist can. I think it is useful to approach the question from the opposite direction. Let us take seriously the hypothesis that an AI does have a kind of mind – that it has representations, utilities, and perhaps even moods and emotions – and ask whether the kind of mind that it can be supposed to have is suitable for the work of doing therapy. My view is that it may not be, and that this points to a different …

I Told the Bot, Not My Therapist

I Told the Bot, Not My Therapist

By Steven E. Hyler, MD When I first heard a patient say, “I told the bot, not my therapist,” I assumed the remark was exaggerated. It was not. Increasingly, adolescents—and adults—are turning to conversational artificial intelligence not for information, but for comfort. Why? These systems appear to listen patiently and respond empathetically, and they remain available no matter what is said. The psychological implications of that shift are only beginning to come into focus. People have always sought private spaces for their thoughts: journals, prayers, late-night conversations with themselves. What feels different now is interactivity. A conversational AI system is not a silent page or an imagined listener. It responds. It validates. It adapts to tone and content. For many users—especially those who feel misunderstood or overwhelmed—that responsiveness can feel like relief. Yes, emotional attachment to technology is not new, and individuals have long formed intense bonds with fictional characters, celebrities, and online personas. What is new is reciprocity. A chatbot does not simply receive thoughts; it replies. It mirrors language. It reassures. It appears …