People Who’ve Grown Slowly Resentful Usually Say 4 Bitter Things In Casual Conversation | Mitzi Bockmann
Unless you have been living in some fairy tale, you know resentment is a destructive factor in romantic relationships. When you first fall in love, it’s fireworks, roses, and warm fuzzies. I’m not saying you can’t or won’t live happily ever after, but I’m saying that doing so is difficult sometimes for those couples in even the happiest, healthiest relationships. Perhaps the best way to illustrate resentment is the metaphor of a thousand cuts: those everyday instances that inflict pain on the other person slowly, brutally waning what once was and reducing the fireworks between the two of you to all but an ember or two. People who have grown slowly resentful usually say these bitter things in casual conversation: 1. *Silence* (using the silent treatment) Passive aggression can be expressed in various ways. For example, your partner may be angry at you for something you may have done (sometimes, it may be perfectly insignificant acts you might not remember) that they’ve bottled up for a week. They haven’t even spoken to you, also known …









