What setting personal goals is really about
Ultimately, the point is to take more control of how you’re spending time. H. Armstrong Roberts / Retrofile / Getty December 28, 2024, 9 AM ET This is an edition of The Wonder Reader, a newsletter in which our editors recommend a set of stories to spark your curiosity and fill you with delight. Sign up here to get it every Saturday morning. New Year’s might as well be called the Day of the Goal. In the coming weeks, conversations and social-media feeds will drift en masse to “What do you want to achieve in 2025?” But perhaps a better question is: “How are you spending your time now, and how do you want to be spending your time next year?” In 2019, my colleague Julie Beck spoke with Goodreads users who were imposing reading goals on themselves, often ones that proved hard to meet. She came into the conversations with a healthy dose of cynicism: “Why set yourself an unattainable goal? Why quantify your leisure reading at all?” I’m skeptical of these kinds of …