All posts tagged: Friends

Chimpanzees steal less pineapple from their friends

Chimpanzees steal less pineapple from their friends

How likely is a chimpanzee (Pan troglodytes) to steal food from another chimp? It depends on whether they’re a friend or a foe. A team of biologists discovered that chimps pilfer less from their friends, and that the relationship between the victim and the thief influenced the emotional display of both parties. The findings are described in a study recently published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior. The team conducted experiments with chimpanzees from Uganda’s Ngamba Island Chimpanzee Sanctuary. But first, they had to figure out who was “friends” with whom.  Scientists sometimes avoid describing a seemingly close relationship between chimps as similar to human friendship. According to study co-author and University of California, Berkeley Oded Ritov, we can’t truly understand their cognitive and emotional complexity, and we run this risk of putting our human ideas and emotions onto other species. But we are starting to see that animals also form friendships. To identify apparently close relationships, the team observed 26 chimpanzees at the sanctuary for over 800 hours. They noticed grooming patterns, daily interactions, …

My friends are spouting conspiracy theories – what should I say?

My friends are spouting conspiracy theories – what should I say?

Recently, I had a conversation with a friend who explained that her ill health was down to reasons I would describe as dubious. Taking certain supplements and changing her diet have significantly improved her health. Good for her. However, she was disappointed and a little annoyed that I didn’t share her outrage and wasn’t going to follow her views. I’ve got another friend who thinks cholesterol is a lie and that we should live largely on meat (and supplements). Another went through a sugar causes cancer phase. And another is sceptical of vaccines. Each of them may be right. They might not. We are learning more about the human body every day. But I was raised by scientists and I want to see a large-scale trial before I get outraged and change the way I live. Equally, I’m not convinced that a lightly regulated for-profit industry (supplements) is automatically more trustworthy than a highly regulated for-profit one (pharma). I want to be respectful of their choices and the research they have done into their specific conditions, but …

Ed Sheeran fans torn over Palestine controversy: ‘There have been difficult conversations between friends’

Ed Sheeran fans torn over Palestine controversy: ‘There have been difficult conversations between friends’

Want to bookmark your favourite articles and stories to read or reference later? Start your Independent Membership today. Join today Already a member? Log in Ed Sheeran has continued to face intense scrutiny over the axing of his support act Macklemore earlier this month, with the British singer-songwriter’s fans telling The Independent that “it’s been a hugely difficult time” for the community. Macklemore was dropped from the US leg of Sheeran’s ongoing Loop tour, allegedly at the behest of Robert Kraft – the billionaire CEO of Kraft Group, which owns Gillette Stadium – due to the “Thrift Shop” rapper’s onstage statements in support of Palestine. After Macklemore was dropped, the four other acts supporting Sheeran on his tour (Aaron Rowe, the Danish band Lukas Graham, Finneas, and Sheeran’s Irish backing band Beoga) also quit the tour in solidarity. Ed Sheeran (Getty Images for iHeartRadio) Sheeran addressed the backlash during a performance at Philadelphia’s Lincoln Financial Field, reading a prepared statement from a teleprompter. “I’ve had to take and make difficult decisions, and I am making …

A tale of two trap houses: being cuckooed ruined my friend’s life – but did it then help save him?

A tale of two trap houses: being cuckooed ruined my friend’s life – but did it then help save him?

Duncan is a good friend of mine. He looks like a Dickensian rock’n’roller: tall and skinny, long hair, retro clothes. He’s read the Flashman novels three times. We met in secondary school in west London in the early 1980s. We got drunk, smoked Rothmans and banana skin spliffs and played Dungeons & Dragons. At 14, we got into punk together and spent our teens playing music and seeing live bands. As we moved into our 20s, I trained as a journalist and Duncan, a talented songwriter and guitarist, carried on with music. At the age of 23 he got involved in heroin. He found the lifestyle immediately seductive, his partner at the time, Lucy, told me. He would often befriend his dealers. “I remember more than once waiting in his car as he’d gone up some tower block to score, thinking where on earth is he?” Lucy said. “He’d be hanging out chatting. There were some genuinely fascinating characters with incredible stories to tell.” We kept in touch. By the 2000s, after a few near …

Why making friends at university feels harder than it really is

Why making friends at university feels harder than it really is

The summer before starting university can be a time of multiple worries for students. Worry about obtaining a place on your desired course. Worry about navigating clearing to confirm your place. Worries about securing accommodation, sorting student finance, preparation for academic studies and even finding the right stationery are also common. Yet many students’ biggest concern is social in nature: “will I make friends?”. Surveys consistently suggest that loneliness and belonging are major concerns for new students starting university. This challenge isn’t unique to shy or socially anxious students. Most freshers experience worries about fitting in and making connections when starting university, especially when others make it seem so easy. Something I find in my research with colleagues is how poor we are at estimating others’ beliefs, feelings and behaviour. We also overestimate how much other people notice our own behaviour and any social missteps. In social psychology, there are two related psychological biases that can explain this pattern. First, the “spotlight effect” explains how we wrongly assume that other people are paying attention to …

Classic sitcom ‘Friends’ helps grad student endure 104 brain scans

Classic sitcom ‘Friends’ helps grad student endure 104 brain scans

Get the Popular Science daily newsletter💡 Breakthroughs, discoveries, and DIY tips sent six days a week. By signing up, you confirm you are 16+, will receive newsletters and promotional content and agree to our Terms of Use and acknowledge the data practices in our Privacy Policy. You may unsubscribe at any time. The science of getting Z’s has progressed rapidly in recent years. A growing body of research links poor sleep to increased risk of cognitive decline, a higher likelihood of Alzheimer’s disease, and even greater chances of developing heart problems. At the same time, wearables, like smart rings and watches, are transforming the way everyday people view sleep, turning their resting hours into rich datasets to pore over, sometimes to unhealthy obsessive levels.  What’s still less understood, is how the subtle, everyday fluctuations in sleep quality that come from simply living a normal life can alter brain chemistry. People don’t live in controlled lab settings, and even the most avid bio-optimizer still has nights where quality sleep takes a backseat. Actually understanding how someone’s …

‘I proposed to my two male best friends. We’re platonic, but we’re getting married’

‘I proposed to my two male best friends. We’re platonic, but we’re getting married’

On a picturesque hillside in Slovenia, 32-year-old Karam Nwilati is preparing for the ultimate declaration of love. Nervously, he gets down on one knee and opens an engagement ring box. Inside are three rings. Nwilati is not proposing to one person, but two: his best friends and platonic life partners, Kristian Naydenov, 29, and Santeri Lehtonen, 36. There’s one ring for each of them. For Naydenov and Lehtonen, the answer was always going to be yes. The three of them have lived together in Berlin since the Covid-19 lockdown, and they have spent the past four-and-a-half years building a community that exists outside conventional relationship ideals. Their “friendship wedding,” a non-legally binding ceremony celebrating their commitment to each other, is planned for October, when they’ll gather their closest friends on the roof of their Berlin apartment. Nwilati, a content creator, shared a video of the engagement online, which has now received more than 480,000 likes. The reactions have been mixed – the more negative ones ranging from judgmental to hateful – while others have hailed …

‘My Undesirable Friends: Part II — Exile’ Review: An Essential Doc

‘My Undesirable Friends: Part II — Exile’ Review: An Essential Doc

If part one of director Julia Loktev’s sprawling and essential 12-hour chronicle of journalism under fire concluded, like any good piece of serial storytelling, with a veritable cliffhanger, part two covers the long and painful aftermath following Russia’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine in February 2022. By that point, we’ve come to know the handful of independent reporters — most of them women accused of being “foreign agents” by Putin’s government — whom Loktev documented during the tense months leading up to the war, showing how they held fast to their beliefs while their country began to crumble around them. My Undesirable Friends: Part II — Exile The Bottom Line Life — and journalism — during wartime. Venue: Venice Film Festival (Out of Competition)Cast: Anna Nemzer, Valeria Ratnikova, Ksenia Mironova, Elena Kostyucheko, Yana Kuchina, Irina Dolinina, Alesya Marokhovskaya, Peter Ruzavin, Nataliya Gumenyuk, Sonya GroysmanDirector, cinematographer: Julia Loktev 5 hours 56 minutes In the second half of this epic study of persecution and resistance, we watch these courageous, resourceful young journos deal with forced exile, scattering across …

JD Vance Wants Everyone To Know He Has Friends

JD Vance Wants Everyone To Know He Has Friends

Vice President JD Vance speaks with reporters in the James Brady Press Briefing Room at the White House on July 23, 2026.  Vice President JD Vance spent part of a Thursday press briefing reminding everyone he definitely has friends. Asked about the departure of Army Secretary Dan Driscoll, who held the role for 18 months, Vance sidelined the question to talk about friendship.  “Dan is obviously a very good friend of mine,” Vance said. “I think he was a great secretary of the Army.” But Driscoll’s not his only friend! “Pete [Hegseth] is also a very good friend of mine, and I think he’s an amazing secretary of war, and fundamentally, there are a lot of issues where I agree with Pete on. The issue where I’m in the most strident agreement with Pete is that we needed to have a culture shift at the Department of War,” Vance elaborated. Asked later in the briefing about his relationship with conservative pundit Tucker Carlson ― who has called for US President Donald Trump to be removed …

AI Friends and Lovers: Promise and Peril

AI Friends and Lovers: Promise and Peril

OpenAI released ChatGPT to the public in 2022. Instead of learning commands or writing code, you simply talked to it. This created a radical shift in our culture that we are just beginning to appreciate and dread. OpenAI, Google, and Anthropic all worried at that time that giving their chatbots too much personality, or letting users form emotional bonds with them, was too risky. Smaller startups saw an opportunity and jumped in, constructing the kinds of artificial intelligence (AI) companionship tools that the giants were reluctant to build. Some of the most popular have been Nomi.AI, Character.ai, and EVA. Many smaller ones like Paradot, Anima, and CrushOnAI provide similar services. Nomi.AI is representative of this genre. I visited its website, where it describes itself as “an AI companion with memory and a soul.” It promises users they can “build a meaningful friendship, develop a passionate relationship, or learn from an insightful mentor. No matter what you’re looking for, Nomi’s humanlike memory and creativity foster a deep, consistent, and evolving relationship.” To register, it asks you …