All posts tagged: fixing

Are You Listening or Fixing?

Are You Listening or Fixing?

Love: A Relationship Built on Showing Up Jamal and Priya had built their relationship around reliability. Jamal, a manager at a boutique advertising firm, often adjusted his demanding schedule to keep things running smoothly at home. Priya, a graduate student finishing her degree in public health, balanced an intense academic workload while also working part-time. Both took pride in being dependable and supportive partners. From early in the relationship, they experienced themselves as a strong team. When one of them became overwhelmed, the other stepped in naturally. Jamal handled errands without being asked. Priya organized schedules and managed the details that held their lives together. They believed love showed up through action. Reducing stress and making life easier for each other felt like meaningful expressions of care. Over time, however, something subtle began changing between them. Even though both continued supporting the relationship in practical ways, their conversations increasingly carried a sense of emotional disconnection that neither fully understood. Crash: When Help Doesn’t Feel Like Support The tension developed during a particularly stressful period for …

The case for fixing everything

The case for fixing everything

Brand is right, too, that maintainers haven’t gotten the laurels they deserve. Over the past few decades, scholars have shown that work from oiling tools to replacing worn parts to updating code bases all tends to be lower in status than “innovation.” Maintenance gets neglected in many organizational and social settings. (Just look at some American infrastructure!) And as the right-to-­repair movement has shown, companies in pursuit of greater profits have frequently locked us out of being able to do repairs or greatly reduced the maintainable life of their products. It’s hard to think of any other reason to put a computer in the door of a refrigerator. Some of Brand’s earlier work helped inspire those insights. But his new book makes me think he doesn’t see things that way. For Brand, maintenance seems to be a solitary act, profound but more about personal success and fulfillment than tending to a shared world or making it better. Born in 1938, Brand is 87 years old. A sense hangs over the book—with its battles against corrosion, …

Fixing length does the trick for Rajasthan spinner Bishnoi

Fixing length does the trick for Rajasthan spinner Bishnoi

NEW DELHI, April 5 : Rajasthan Royals leg-spinner Ravi Bishnoi believes he has turned a major weakness into his strength after putting on a match-winning display in Saturday’s Indian Premier League (IPL) match against Gujarat Titans. Bishnoi endured his worst IPL season last year, when he managed only nine wickets in 11 games, prompting Lucknow Super Giants to release him. The 25-year-old went through a hard grind to fix his length and claimed 4-41 to set up Rajasthan’s six-wicket victory against Gujarat. “Last season was difficult,” Bishnoi said after collecting the award for player of the match at Ahmedabad’s Narendra Modi Stadium. “I had one weakness, if my length was wrong, then I was getting hit for fours and sixes. “I played a whole season of domestics and worked on perfecting my lengths. Hitting my lengths made it difficult for batters, when I was too full I got hit today too.” That method showed up in his impressive display. Bishnoi deceived Sai Sudharsan and Glenn Phillips with googlies and also dismissed Washington Sundar before landing the …