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Mom Says She Shouldn’t Force Her Daughter To Say Thank You To An Older Man Who Complimented Her Appearance

Mom Says She Shouldn’t Force Her Daughter To Say Thank You To An Older Man Who Complimented Her Appearance

In an effort to teach kids to be polite, especially little girls, parents sometimes make them sit in discomfort and engage with people they don’t want to interact with. Liz Kindred, a mom and content creator, doesn’t want her daughter to have that experience. She detailed an incident in which she refused to force her daughter to accept a compliment from a stranger. Many online praised her for respecting her child’s autonomy. The mom said she shouldn’t have to force her 6-year-old daughter to say ‘thank you’ to an older man who complimented her appearance. “I was in line this morning with my six-year-old and a grown man turned around and said to my six-year-old, ‘My goodness, you sure are pretty,’” Kindred recalled. “My six-year-old is gorgeous, yes, but she is also very in tune and perceptive and she’s an introvert so she grabbed my leg really tight.” The man didn’t take the little girl’s obvious hesitation as a sign to turn around and mind his business, but instead doubled down on the compliment, saying, …

A Stranger Paid It Forward When I Was Short On Cash And His Generosity Changed My Life

A Stranger Paid It Forward When I Was Short On Cash And His Generosity Changed My Life

When my kids were young, I often struggled with money. After separating from my ex-husband, I had to work and provide childcare. My ex never helped me and had no guilt about leaving us high and dry. Speaking of being high, that’s what led to this story. After giving my ex money for what I believed to be food and rehab fees (apparently, that’s not a thing), I was broke. Of course, my deadbeat ex spent the money on drugs and other women while I struggled to provide for our children. I thought I had enough to spend $75 on groceries for my six kids. They meant the world to me. After being raised by my grandma, I swore they would be my focus when I had kids. One day, I strolled into a grocery store in Kansas, to buy a few things to get by for a few days. I counted everything exactly. I bought cereal, pasta, chicken, rice, potatoes, eggs, bread, and peanut butter. I might have thrown in soda and milk, but …

Woman reveals ‘skinny privilege’ after losing 11 stone – ‘strangers treat me differently’ | UK | News

Woman reveals ‘skinny privilege’ after losing 11 stone – ‘strangers treat me differently’ | UK | News

Now Issy has lost 11st 10lbs and is a slender 13st 1lbs and can slip into a size 14 but has realised how differently she is being treated. She said people now hold the door open for her and smile at her and they hadn’t before – so she believes she now has ‘skinny privilege’. Issy, an e-commerce and social media manager, from Grimsby, Lincolnshire, said: “It’s basic things – someone holding the door open. People smiling at you. “I feel I get treated differently. When you’ve been big you realise you don’t have the same experience. “I was quite shocked that people before wouldn’t have entertained me before have popped up. I’m the exact same person. I still treat people the same. “I want someone to like me for me not for what I look like. People say you’re thinner now – must get more attention. “It’s a bit sad. Why wasn’t she worthy of the same? But everyone has a preference and everyone is entitled to that. “It’s crazy how different people treat …

Dozens of strangers caught visiting mysterious property ‘at all hours of the day and night’

Dozens of strangers caught visiting mysterious property ‘at all hours of the day and night’

Nestled in a street of red-brick terraces lies a house with one mystery, that has got its neighbours asking questions. Residents of what is usually a quiet terraced street, have been left questioning what is going on behind one of their neighbour’s doors. The mystery comes as dozens of strangers have been caught visiting the property ‘at all hours of the day and night.’ It was Monday, April 22, when the home in Primrose Grove, Wallasey, was first brought to attention, after 14 men were spotted coming and going in a nine hour period – CCTV footage has captured the mysterious goings on. It then unravelled that one taxi driver appeared to be associated with the house, one resident told the ECHO. Read more: My baby boy died in my arms less than 24 hours after he was discharged from hospital Read more: Nurse who faked sick note caught out after people looked at her Facebook “I have lived here 11 years and never had anything happen like this,” says one resident, Jenny, 33. She …

Discussing political disagreements with strangers is often surprisingly positive, study finds

Discussing political disagreements with strangers is often surprisingly positive, study finds

In a recent study published in Psychological Science, a team of scientists revealed that people generally underestimate the positive connections they can form when discussing political and religious disagreements with strangers. Contrary to popular belief, these discussions often turn out more positively than expected, suggesting that our fears about the consequences of such exchanges may be overstated. People are often advised to avoid discussing contentious topics like politics and religion in conversations, especially with strangers. This advice is rooted in the belief that such discussions will inevitably lead to negative outcomes, such as discomfort, arguments, or even lasting animosity. However, this perspective may be overly cautious and could contribute to greater social polarization. As political and religious divides widen, especially in societies like the United States, the lack of engagement across differing viewpoints may reinforce echo chambers and diminish empathy between groups. Researchers were driven to investigate whether the actual outcomes of such conversations matched the negative expectations. Prior studies had hinted that people might naturally avoid those who disagree with them, not just out …

David E. Kelley Shares Updates on ‘Nine Perfect Strangers’ and ‘Big Little Lies’ (Exclusive)

David E. Kelley Shares Updates on ‘Nine Perfect Strangers’ and ‘Big Little Lies’ (Exclusive)

David E. Kelley is keeping the hope of another season alive for fans of Big Little Lies — but staying real about the challenges standing in the way. The 11-time Emmy winner walked the carpet at a premiere screening of his new Netflix series, A Man In Full, at the TUDUM Theater in Los Angeles on Wednesday, and he spoke to ET’s Cassie DiLaura about a number of his beloved projects — including the hit HBO series that fans are still hoping gets a third season. “There’s a lot of people talking about it,” Kelley said with a laugh, when asked if a script has been written for a possible season 3. “But it’s a very, very busy schedule [to make work].” The acclaimed drama series stars Reese Witherspoon, Nicole Kidman, Shailene Woodley, Laura Dern, Adam Scott, Zoë Kravitz and Meryl Streep, to name a few. “Soif you could lasso all that talent, everybody would love to do it. It’s a great team,” Kelley said. “[But] there’s some logistical challenges between now and then.” Ultimately, however, …

How Talking To Strangers Can Improve Your Wellbeing

How Talking To Strangers Can Improve Your Wellbeing

The close relationships we have with romantic partners, family, friends and even co-workers enrich our lives in countless ways. But there’s another type of connection that’s meaningful but often overlooked: the interactions we share with strangers. Think about the Trader Joe’s cashier you chat with while they bag your groceries or the neighbour you always exchange ’good morning’s with while walking your dogs. These brief interactions may seem insignificant to you, but research has shown that’s just not true. Hanne Collins, a Harvard Business School Ph.D. student who studies conversation, said that while close relationships provide intimacy, trust, support and emotional depth, “weak ties,” like casual acquaintances, are also an important part of our social lives. “Weak ties connect us to other people, resources, and information that we might not have access to otherwise,” Collins told HuffPost. “Further, people confide more than we would expect in weak ties, and people actually enjoyed conversations with strangers much more than they expected to.” Collins co-authored a 2022 study, published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy …

“Begging strangers for money”: John Oliver mocks Trump hawking products to pay for legal troubles

“Begging strangers for money”: John Oliver mocks Trump hawking products to pay for legal troubles

John Oliver has called out Donald Trump for a recent slew of  “cash grabs.”  On Sunday’s “Last Week Tonight,” Oliver observed that Trump has “had a rough run in the courts lately. Between the E. Jean Carroll defamation judgment and New York State’s fraud case, he’s on the hook for over half a billion dollars, but even that doesn’t capture the full extent of the financial damage.” “Apparently since leaving office, he spent more than $100 million on legal bills alone, which averages more than $90,000 a day, none of it paid for with his own money,” Oliver said, citing a New York Times report. “A lot has come from his supporters because he’s repeatedly used his legal troubles as a pretext to ask for donations, including this plea on Tuesday,” he added, showing a clip of the ex-president speaking to MAGA supporters: “We’re fighting. We’re winning. You see what’s going on. So whatever you can do to help financially would be fantastic, because we have to beat it if it’s $5 or $10 or $100, whatever …

Return Of The ‘Knockout Game’? Women Punched By “Strangers” In New York City

Return Of The ‘Knockout Game’? Women Punched By “Strangers” In New York City

Authored by Paul Joseph Watson via Modernity.news, The New York Post is speculating that the infamous ‘knockout game’ could have made a return after numerous women reported being punched in the head by “strangers” in New York City. Over the course of the last two weeks, multiple women have released viral TikTok videos explaining how they were taken by surprise and assaulted on the street. “You guys, I was literally just walking, and a man came up and punched me in the face,” Halley Kate, an influencer who has 1.1 million followers on TikTok told her fans. “Oh my God, it was so bad, I can’t even talk,” she added. Mikayla Toninato told a similar story of how she “just got punched in the face, walking home.” “I was literally like leaving class, I turned the corner and I was looking down and I was looking at my phone, and like texting, and then, out of nowhere, this man just came up and hit me in the face,” she said. Another woman named Oliva Brand …

Autistic adults tend to be more generous towards strangers, study finds

Autistic adults tend to be more generous towards strangers, study finds

A study in Germany found that autistic adults tend to be more generous towards strangers compared to people without this disorder. In a task where they had to divide money between individuals, they were more prone to split the money equally regardless of how close they felt to the person they were sharing the money with. The research was published in the journal Autism. The abilities to cooperate with others and share resources is one of the hallmarks of human society. It is a trait at the very foundation of the human civilization, so important that scientists studying ancient humans often interpret signs of resource sharing and cooperation as signs of a developed civilization. However, humans typically exhibit reluctance to share their resources equally with everyone. Generosity among humans tends to diminish as social distance increases. While individuals might share everything with their family, their readiness to share with those they are less close to decreases significantly and may vanish entirely with strangers. This behavior is known as social discounting. Although personality traits such as …