So you’re in love with a married man. Some might even call you his mistress, but in your eyes, your relationship means so much more than that. The experience of falling in love with a married man cuts across almost all cultures, age groups, ethnicities, religions, and education levels. Yet, despite the knowledge that this scenario is unethical, immoral, and guaranteed to bring pain to everyone involved, many otherwise smart, single women get their hearts tangled up this way. You already know this is a story that does not end well. Maybe today you’re only fantasizing about getting involved with an unavailable man, and you’re looking for a sign that the universe is warning you to stop, take a deep breath, and just walk away. Or maybe you did get involved and have been dating a married man, and now he has been the one to pull back. While it can be hard to get control of your emotions when you feel so connected to another person, you can at least control how you frame …