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After Her Daughter Got A Dress Code Violation Mom Questions School’s Cheerleading Uniform

After Her Daughter Got A Dress Code Violation Mom Questions School’s Cheerleading Uniform

A mother expressed her anger after learning that her daughter was sent home from school for not following the dress code despite not wearing anything provocative or inappropriate. In a TikTok video, Shasty Leah shared that her daughter being sent home from school because of the dress code wasn’t the issue. The issue was the school administrators enforcing an outdated ideology that young girls should be covering up their bodies so that the boys around them aren’t uncomfortable. She argued that schools shouldn’t allow girls to wear tiny cheerleading uniforms after her daughter was sent home for dress code violations. Leah explained that her daughter had been sent home from school less than two hours before the end of the day because of a dress code violation. She claimed her daughter left the house that morning wearing a long-sleeved shirt and blue jeans. RELATED: High School Student Challenges Her School’s Dress Code During An Assembly — ‘Our Bodies Aren’t Distracting, You’re Disgusting’ Administrators claimed the teen’s outfit was “distracting to the boys,” and Leah pointed out that instead of teaching …

Dear Therapist: I Don’t Want to Take Care of My Aging, Homophobic Parents

Dear Therapist: I Don’t Want to Take Care of My Aging, Homophobic Parents

Dear Therapist, I’m an eldest daughter in my late 20s, and when I was a teenager, my relationship with my parents significantly broke down. I left for college thousands of miles away, anticipating long-term estrangement. They were homophobic, telling me I had to break up with my girlfriend if I wanted to continue to have a relationship with them, and I was not willing to do that. We avoided full-blown estrangement, but our relationship has puttered along without an emotional connection. I text and call my mother a few times a month. I try to text my father and younger brothers, but receive a reply only once or twice a year. My brothers live at home as young adults, so I’m aware of what they’re up to, but I don’t have an open line of communication with them. My conversations with my mother have made clear to me that she and the others are expecting me to eventually move home and provide eldercare. This is unsurprising because my childhood role in our family was the …

Teacher Is The First Person To Tell High School Student That Santa Isn’t Real

Teacher Is The First Person To Tell High School Student That Santa Isn’t Real

A high school teacher feels guilty because she fears she may have stripped one of her students’ of Christmas magic. In a class discussion, the teacher drew a connection from the book they were reading to children who still believe in the mythical Santa Claus. Surprisingly, one of her students was stunned by this revelation.  The teacher accidentally revealed to her 10th-grade student that Santa Claus wasn’t real.  Sharing her story to the AITA subreddit, the high school English teacher asked others if she was wrong for assuming that all of her sophomore students knew by now that Santa Claus wasn’t real.  While discussing the book “Animal Farm” with her class, the teacher revealed that the animals in the book are “very unintelligent and gullible, easily falling for propaganda.”  RELATED: Language Arts Teacher Considers Quitting Because Her 10th Grade Students Don’t Know How To Read “One of the horses couldn’t even learn the alphabet past the letter D,” she explained.  When one of her students asked why the animals in the books so easily fell for propaganda, the teacher explained …

Ben Affleck is more than a Dunkin’ Donuts meme

Ben Affleck is more than a Dunkin’ Donuts meme

This is an edition of The Atlantic Daily, a newsletter that guides you through the biggest stories of the day, helps you discover new ideas, and recommends the best in culture. Sign up for it here. Welcome back to The Daily’s Sunday culture edition, in which one Atlantic writer or editor reveals what’s keeping them entertained. Today’s special guest is Gilad Edelman, a senior editor at The Atlantic who has written about the rising cost of English muffins (and the source of our economic discontent), the stubborn survival of crypto, and the case for weather being the best small-talk topic. Gilad is a self-described “Letter Boxed head” and a staunch Ben Affleck defender (he recommends The Way Back and—curveball—Zack Snyder’s Justice League as some of the finer examples of Affleck’s talents). He also challenges anybody to find a more reliable actor than Seth Rogen—or to quote a good Oasis lyric. First, here are three Sunday reads from The Atlantic: The Culture Survey: Gilad Edelman An actor I would watch in anything: If I’m answering literally, …

A 17th-century nun’s feminist manifesto

A 17th-century nun’s feminist manifesto

This is an edition of The Atlantic Daily, a newsletter that guides you through the biggest stories of the day, helps you discover new ideas, and recommends the best in culture. Sign up for it here. Welcome back to The Daily’s Sunday culture edition, in which one Atlantic writer or editor reveals what’s keeping them entertained. Today’s special guest is Gisela Salim-Peyer, an assistant editor who has written about the fantasy of heritage tourism, the Venezuelan government’s project to redeem a dead rapper, and Italy’s millennia-old ambition to build a bridge to Sicily. Gisela fell in love with Mexico City and Mexico’s national anthropology museum on her first visit last spring, was transfixed by the opening paragraph of Juan Rulfo’s novel, Pedro Páramo, and views the 17th-century Mexican nun Sor Juana Inés de la Cruz as the last word on everything. First, here are three Sunday reads from The Atlantic: The Culture Survey: Gisela Salim-Peyer The last museum show that I loved: Last year, I went to Mexico City for the first time and loved …

When soccer was an American afterthought

When soccer was an American afterthought

This is an edition of Time-Travel Thursdays, a journey through The Atlantic’s archives to contextualize the present and surface delightful treasures. Sign up here. In 1979, Penny Pinkham wrote an article for The Atlantic titled “Sportspeak,” a brief overview that provided readers—specifically those who might be novices to the landscape of professional sports in America—with the necessary context and lingo to fake their way through dinner-party conversations. Rather than writing would-be entries for Encyclopedia Britannica, however, Pinkham took a slightly more unorthodox approach. Excerpts include: Baseball players wear tight-fitting uniforms in stretch fabrics and they often display bulging paunches along with the bulging cheeks. They spit a lot and spend a lot of time in the clubhouse playing cards. Football players are called Bill or Steve, with a sprinkling of Bubbas. Their coaches are called Chuck. Most basketball players went to college at UCLA or North Carolina, except for those over 6’10” whose first and last names begin with the same letter, who are allowed to come to play directly out of high school. Many …

Is Solitude Really What You Want?

Is Solitude Really What You Want?

One summer evening, in the mid-19th century, Henry David Thoreau threw a party—a melon party, to be precise, a long-standing tradition of his earthy, garden-loving family. His table, I imagine, looked like a New England take on a Dutch still life: According to a neighbor’s diary, he laid out “sunflowers, cornstalks, beet leaves & squash blossoms … forty-six melons, fifteen different kinds; apples, all the production of his garden.” But chatter at the party wasn’t limited to Thoreau’s prodigious green thumb. His mother, Cynthia, had previously been spreading around town that her son found parties loathsome, even contemptible—he was, after all, a man who enjoyed his peace. But now, after the large gathering, she felt she had to apologize for the mild slander. It turns out that Thoreau, a godfather of the myth of American individualism, was misunderstood even by his own mother: He wasn’t the solitary grump that the world made him out to be. In Followed by the Lark, a luscious novel from Helen Humphreys, Thoreau doesn’t throw any parties, but he does …

Universities Don’t Sacrifice Excellence for Diversity

Universities Don’t Sacrifice Excellence for Diversity

A noxious and surprisingly commonplace myth has taken hold in recent years, alleging that elite universities have pursued diversity at the expense of scholarly excellence. Much the reverse is true: Efforts to grow and embrace diversity at America’s great research universities have made them better than ever. If you want excellence, you need to find, attract, and support talent from every sector of society, not just from privileged groups and social classes. As the president of Princeton University, I see the benefits of that strategy on a daily basis—and never more vividly than when Princeton recognizes its most accomplished alumni. Later this month, for example, the university will honor Fei-Fei Li, a Chinese American immigrant who spent college weekends helping with her family’s dry-cleaning business, and now co-directs Stanford’s Institute for Human-Centered Artificial Intelligence. Li exemplifies the connection between excellence and diversity, as do other recent Princeton-alumni award recipients, including American Civil Liberties Union Executive Director Anthony Romero, who grew up in a low-income housing project in the Bronx; Ariel Investments’ co–chief executive officer, Mellody …

Tired of Pink | Lauren Michele Jackson

Tired of Pink | Lauren Michele Jackson

“Slut” and “whore” evince, like piped exhaust, the running engine of Mean Girls. Early in the original film, our protagonist and narrator and new girl, Cady Heron, is recruited by two classmates, Janis and Damian, into a revenge plot against “the Plastics,” a trio of popular girls perched, in four-inch pumps, at the tippy-top of the pecking order at North Shore High. Janis introduces Regina, the head hen, to Cady, and to us in turn, as follows: “Don’t be fooled, because she may seem like your typical selfish, back-stabbing, slut-faced ho-bag. But in reality, she is so much more than that.” And we’re off. Permit me to recount a scene that is by now well known. Cady strikes out on her own one night, going solo in an act of “major plastic sabotage,” previously a three-person job. It goes down in split-screen. Over a seeming two-way phone call, Cady asks Regina if she’s mad at Gretchen, her second-in-command, for having been nominated for Spring Fling Queen, a title Regina has held since time immemorial (that …

Raina Telgemeier Gets It – The Atlantic

Raina Telgemeier Gets It – The Atlantic

If you do not have a child under the age of 16, or are not yourself under the age of 16, you might have no idea who Raina is. So it was with me. I called a friend with kids and said, “Have you heard of an author named Raina Telgemeier?” “Of course,” she said, sounding bemused, as if I’d asked whether she was familiar with the automobile. “Like the Beatles for children,” another parent friend explained. Explore the March 2024 Issue Check out more from this issue and find your next story to read. View More Last spring, standing in the theater at the Billy Ireland Cartoon Library & Museum in Columbus, Ohio, surveying the hundreds of kids and teenagers who had come to meet Raina, I realized the scale of my ignorance. Half an hour earlier, her fans had been standing on their seats, jumping up and down, waving their arms in the air, but now the long wait for autographs had begun. Everyone had been assigned a number and organized into subgroups …