All posts tagged: GrownUps

Bedtime Stories for Grown-Ups – The New York Times

Bedtime Stories for Grown-Ups – The New York Times

If I’m not working or around other people, more often than not, I want to be reading. The rise in availability of audiobooks has made this easier to achieve. One can read a physical book when stationary, then listen to an audiobook when driving, tidying up, walking or otherwise in motion. I like to get the same book in both formats for complete immersion: read the book over breakfast, switch to the audiobook on the stereo while getting ready for work, listen on headphones during my commute. My fall-asleep routine always, inviolably, involves reading either a physical or Kindle book. It’s so effective a soporific that most nights I struggle to read for more than 10 minutes, which is both satisfying and maddening. I’ve tried falling asleep to audiobooks, but there’s something about it that’s too passive. It’s almost as if I need to be actively engaged in the pursuit of staying awake in order to fall asleep. Reading a physical book in bed, my eyes and hands and even bent knees against which the …

Imaginary Friends for Grown-Ups | Psychology Today

Imaginary Friends for Grown-Ups | Psychology Today

It’s great to have people who support us in our parenting, such as friends, family, role models, folks online who offer inspiration, and professionals. But real-life people are busy sometimes. They have other obligations. Humans are imperfect and don’t always say the right thing at the right time. So how can we have a magical support person who is available 24/7, is always eager and willing to be there, always says exactly what is needed in every situation, and doesn’t need bathroom breaks or breaks from us when we are too much? That seems impossible, right? But no, it’s easy, as long as we open our arms to what I like to call “imaginary friends for grown-ups.” Like a toddler’s lovey, a young child’s favorite stuffed animal, or an older child’s imaginary friend, we can call on someone who never tires, falls short and is never too busy for us. It might be a beloved grandmother who passed away, but you can still talk to her picture on the wall anytime you wish or talk …